Number of suicides committed by teenage boys hits record high

[SINGAPORE] The number of teenage boys taking their own lives reached a record high last year.

Nineteen boys aged 10 to 19 committed suicide in 2018, the highest since suicide figures began being recorded in 1991.

In 2017, there were seven suicides by teenage boys.

The total number of suicides also rose last year, with 397 reported - 36 more than in 2017.

The Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) provided a breakdown of the annual statistics, which had been released earlier by the Immigration and Checkpoints Authority.

The number of people taking their own lives rose across all age groups, except for the elderly - those aged 60 and over.

There were 8.36 suicides per 100,000 Singapore residents, up from 7.74 in 2017.

The prevalence of suicide among youths and males is a "significant societal concern", the SOS said, adding that suicide remains the leading cause of death among youths - people aged 10 to 29 .

Last year 94 youths chose to end their own lives.

For every 10 youths who died from external causes, about six were a result of suicide.

Wong Lai Chun, senior assistant director of the SOS, said: "Youths today seem to have greater awareness of the moments when they feel alone and helpless.

"Even so, it is disconcerting to know that many of our young feel unsupported through their darkest periods and see suicide as the only choice to end their pain and struggles."

The SOS found that - among those who contacted the organisation and revealed their age and gender - male teenagers made up only 30 per cent of incoming SOS helpline calls and about 27 per cent of its email befriending services.

Societal stereotypes that demand men be tough and able to handle all challenges could be one of the barriers preventing male teenagers from seeking help.

For every 10 suicides last year, seven were by men.

According to an earlier report released by the Immigration and Checkpoints Authority, there were 283 male suicides last year and 114 female.

"We live in a society that stresses the importance of masculine qualities as a measure of success," added Ms Wong. "As a result, we grow impatient toward behaviours that seem to depict weakness.

"Men are stereotypically expected to be tough, stoic, and financially stable. The slightest hint of vulnerability can be seen as an imperfection. This has to change.

"Men and women alike need to know that it is okay to be less than perfect and we need to educate the public to understand that a supportive and encouraging environment is far more beneficial than a judgemental one for our society."

If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts or in emotional distress, call SOS' 24-hour hotline on 1800-221-4444.

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